Week 1: The Foundation Week

Week 1

This Week: Diagnosis

See what is broken. Most couples grade their marriage on a curve -- this week asks you to be the Brutal Historian instead. You cannot fix what you will not face.

Explained

The four assessment scoring zones: Restoration (0-50), Stability (51-75), Growth (76-89), and Flourishing (90-100). Your score is a location, not a verdict -- it tells you where you are so you can choose where to go. — Where this week's honest assessment can land you -- your score is a location, not a verdict.

This is the shape of what this whole week is building toward: not a single pass/fail grade, but a real place on a spectrum from Restoration to Flourishing. It previews the destination before you start -- Day 1's Brutal Assessment is where you find out where you actually stand today, and the rest of the week is aimed at moving you one zone closer to Flourishing.

What Week 1 Covers

•The Brutal Assessment
•Identify Your Pattern
•Stop the Bleeding
•Clear the Toxins
•Build the Emotional Bank Account
•The Weekly Meeting
•Week 1 Debrief

Days in This Week

1Day 1: The Brutal Assessment 2Day 2: Identify Your Pattern 3Day 3: Stop the Bleeding 4Day 4: Clear the Toxins 5Day 5: Build the Emotional Bank Account 6Day 6: The Weekly Meeting 7Day 7: Week 1 Debrief

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